How to gain confidence to interact with people?

How to gain confidence to interact with people?

  • Devil asked 2 years ago




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  • Harbans  answered 2 years ago

Just know thyself fully before you want to know others for interaction. Just explore what are your shortcomings which come in your way while you are interacting with others. It is not that it will come in a few days. It is a practice which you will have to do holistically. The following should also be borne in mind:-

1} Know your weak areas and devise ways to plug those weak areas. If required, you can attend some course in public speaking and behaviour.

2} Knowing your weak area and then taking proactive action to rectifying the same, just put those learnt traits into practice by venturing the first of initiating dialogue with someone known to you. It is just to be sure that if you fumble, the other party may not take offence.

3} Third step is to be precise and to the point in your expression of your view points. Not to be too much assertive but be persuasive to a point

4} If you repeat a thing, it becomes your habit in the long run. Bear in mind, we never lose by making a try. Try and see what the other party reacts.

5} Sure enough, your own efforts will bring dividends. Be at ease. Do not be impatient to put in your point of view.

6} Listen with sincerity the others’ view and then give your own.

All in all, I can say that you only can make a difference, so train yourself for a change and the results will be astounding.

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Arnold answered 2 years ago

1) think of a time when you were having a blast
2) remember it from a 3rd person perspective
3) now remember it normally from your perspective and feel whatever you felt then, and I mean go in DETAIL.
4) rub your left fist
5) imagine interacting with someone new, while feeling great like you did in the event you remembered above
6) rub your left fist again

I know it seems crazy but it works, if you do that before you go out, anytime you start feeling insecure, just rub your left fist, and your mind will automatically send you the feelings you just installed. Try it!


Author: Harbans

GOD is very compassionate with us in every way, need is to use those blessings which are the results of His bounties and thank Him for everything that He gives us. We should also share these bounties with our fellow-beings. I am the person who loves God and His Creations. I love my Creator and not fear Him. My children are adjusted to life, incommensurate, to their Karma and destiny. I have served as a Sr CGO for about 38 years in a Central Govt. Presently I am serving as an Adm Offer with an Engineering College. I am a spiritual person with liberal ways of thinking. I respect all the religions as I respect mine since I understand that all the religions are the pathways to a SINGLE ENTITY - paths for connecting with Him may be different but the ULTIMATE SOURCE IS ONE. I want to be a student till last day of my life. I am a homeopath also, which I pursue as a social service only. Happy moments, I take as God's Gifts, sad ones I take as His Test for me. I believe that He will surely assist me in this Test of His, come what may. Really. I have more belief in Him than I am on my own. You can comprehend my philosophy in life from my write-ups which I write while interacting with them. I firmly believe that every person has the special characteristic which other fellows cannot have and I respect that person as such. With the grace of Almighty God, a book entitled INNER THOUGHTS which could be purchased online from This book is based on the topics which have been penned down. That is why it is rightly said if intentions are good, everything goes well with you.