Sometimes I hate myself because of my frustration in life…Why do I feel this way? How will I cope up with these.I hate it…

Sometimes I hate myself because of my frustration in life…Why do I feel this way?

How will I cope up with these.I hate it…

Best Answer

  • Harbans answered 3 years ago

In our day to day lives, we sometimes feel that we are not getting what we want. And it is not always that you get everything of your choice. When such a situation arises, the conflict comes in our mind. This is felt, not only by you, but many of us. You should not think that you are the only one who faces such situations. Always think that if it is a common pattern in our life then why fret and affect our today. In order to maintain equanimity in happiness or sadness, have a balanced thinking. If bad tidings are felt, always think that good ones will also come. *


*When we face difficult situation it is natural that we feel dejected. Even if we try our utmost we cannot totally put a veil on that difficult situation. Merely closing our eyes a mountain does not disappear. It just remains there where it exists. But difference is how we face that counts. Just face the fact and never not flight from any situation that comes. Never ‘hate’ yourself if some failure knocks at the door initially. No problem; face the fact and always introspect our God is always there to provide us His succor.


Author: Harbans

GOD is very compassionate with us in every way, need is to use those blessings which are the results of His bounties and thank Him for everything that He gives us. We should also share these bounties with our fellow-beings. I am the person who loves God and His Creations. I love my Creator and not fear Him. My children are adjusted to life, incommensurate, to their Karma and destiny. I have served as a Sr CGO for about 38 years in a Central Govt. Presently I am serving as an Adm Offer with an Engineering College. I am a spiritual person with liberal ways of thinking. I respect all the religions as I respect mine since I understand that all the religions are the pathways to a SINGLE ENTITY - paths for connecting with Him may be different but the ULTIMATE SOURCE IS ONE. I want to be a student till last day of my life. I am a homeopath also, which I pursue as a social service only. Happy moments, I take as God's Gifts, sad ones I take as His Test for me. I believe that He will surely assist me in this Test of His, come what may. Really. I have more belief in Him than I am on my own. You can comprehend my philosophy in life from my write-ups which I write while interacting with them. I firmly believe that every person has the special characteristic which other fellows cannot have and I respect that person as such. With the grace of Almighty God, a book entitled INNER THOUGHTS which could be purchased online from This book is based on the topics which have been penned down. That is why it is rightly said if intentions are good, everything goes well with you.

6 thoughts on “Sometimes I hate myself because of my frustration in life…Why do I feel this way? How will I cope up with these.I hate it…”

  1. Have adopted this attitude already for a long time. Diagnosed prostate cancer Monday. Small area, confined, early stage, prognosis very good. So, hey, I’m 65 . I’m supposed to have this. Another rite of passage so I’ll deal with it. I have surprised myself in that I am comfortable with the idea that I must address the matter and then everything will turn out just the way it is supposed to be.

    1. Carl sir sorry to come to know about prostate cancer.

      Have this malady cured because it is an early stage. With your determination and will to face life you can make much difference. Age though could be a factor yet it is not always.

      When you know how a particular case scenario could be ‘addressed’ then we can surmount any situation. We can survive any bad omen.

      God comes with positive assurances He will certainly come to you too and make you healthy and strong again.


  2. I had a rough year last year, and start of this one. Spring floods took driveway out twice, husband and I both had surgery, my mother died three days after Christmas, tore MCL in knee, my dog of nearly 17 years died shortly after my mother did. I began to wonder if I really even wanted to get out of bed. But I did, and have tried to put everything back together as well as I can. What will be, will be….

    1. Madam the idea; What will be will be makes much difference. Challenge the challenges and see how everything gets in your favour. Shying from the problems hardly does not help. Try your best in solving problems and keep everything to our Lord for results. That will make everything fine.


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