How do I tell my parents that I have bad anxiety thoughts about them Like killings thoughts need help?

How do I tell my parents that I have bad anxiety thoughts about them Like killings thoughts need help? (A question asked by somebody).


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Accepting your bad thoughts means you want to refine these thoughts. It is really a good sign of your refinement. Only the resolute will from your inner recesses of your mind should come and show you the path for your overall benefit.

Having killing thoughts too is a sign that you were not fortunate to have good childhood – may be you could not get quality time from your parents due to their pre-occupation with their jobs etc or may be due to bad influence of your environment. Or still more, you may not have got good peer group. All these may have influenced your thoughts.

Now as you are very clear about your thoughts, you are the only one who could help yourself. First of all just tell your parents, they will be more than happy to pull you out of this predicament. No parents wants their children to be in anxiety and that too with ‘killing thoughts’.They will try every means at their disposal to help you including the help of some medical experts in the field but one thing should not be lost sight of that there is a solution of every problem, if and when we want to have those solutions!

I think, nothing is amiss as on today. You have positive views on life. God is great. He comes to the rescue of those who seek Him most sincerely. With His presence and association, we can solve any problem. Have sincere belief in Him and you will out unscathed. God bless you. You should also have a firm belief that ‘TIME’ is a great healer. *

*It has been observed that those who can decipher their thoughts, may be at times negative ones, can certainly mend their ways, follow the right path by shunning those negatively oriented ideas which are playing in his/her mindset. This could only be done through self analysis and introspection. This path though is strewn with thorn but once we follow this path with right earnest, the destination is not that far – a destination of self awakening and clarity of vision with God’s grace.

Harbans  · 6 days ago


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Author: Harbans

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5 thoughts on “How do I tell my parents that I have bad anxiety thoughts about them Like killings thoughts need help?”

  1. If we want to inculcate positive attitude, we can do so, if and when we are ready for it. The INNER VOICE should come out from our being for it.

    1. Thanks a lot madam for your comments after going through the blog. In fact professional help is the ultimate remedy but if some solace comes with positive thoughts then there is nothing wrong. Regards

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