Why most of the people when finding a girl alone treat her as an opportunity and not as a responsibility – to save her when she is face to face with difficult situation? (As asked)

Why most of the people when finding a girl alone treat her as an opportunity and not as a responsibility –  to save her when she is faced with difficult situation?

Be that as it may, pray do not generalize as by doing so, you are including all men who do not harbor any ill-will or consider girl as an ‘opportunity’ or to be a nuisance to her. The word ‘opportunity’ here has negative connotations which a well civilized person, brought up in congenial atmosphere will never think of doing.

 This is, undoubtedly notwithstanding the fact that there are black sheep including men amongst us masquerading (wearing a mask of decency) to hide their identities who while seeing a girl alone ‘treat them as an opportunity’. Such persons are ignorant about relationships – either of themselves or of others.

They do not take into cognizance that  today it is somebody else’s daughter, sister, wife, mother; then tomorrow, it is possible that she could be a very close relative of his own. Then what? And if somebody mistreats or makes her life miserable then what would be that particular person’s feelings after knowing the truth? Generally, we forget this reality before thinking others as an opportunity – a shortsightedness of highest order, in my view.

On the other hand, we should take it as our avowed ‘responsibility’ to render assistance, in the form of personal involvement to save the concerned girl or informing the law enforcement agencies to for the succor. The girl may have lost her way or may be facing any problem. It is our responsibility to know the cause of her predicament and then render assistance in whatever way it is possible..

To consider her helplessness as an ‘opportunity’ is rather a misnomer and downright uncivilized demeanor and every right thinking person will condemn such a behavior  in the strongest terms imaginable.

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Author: Harbans

GOD is very compassionate with us in every way, need is to use those blessings which are the results of His bounties and thank Him for everything that He gives us. We should also share these bounties with our fellow-beings. I am the person who loves God and His Creations. I love my Creator and not fear Him. My children are adjusted to life, incommensurate, to their Karma and destiny. I have served as a Sr CGO for about 38 years in a Central Govt. Presently I am serving as an Adm Offer with an Engineering College. I am a spiritual person with liberal ways of thinking. I respect all the religions as I respect mine since I understand that all the religions are the pathways to a SINGLE ENTITY - paths for connecting with Him may be different but the ULTIMATE SOURCE IS ONE. I want to be a student till last day of my life. I am a homeopath also, which I pursue as a social service only. Happy moments, I take as God's Gifts, sad ones I take as His Test for me. I believe that He will surely assist me in this Test of His, come what may. Really. I have more belief in Him than I am on my own. You can comprehend my philosophy in life from my write-ups which I write while interacting with them. I firmly believe that every person has the special characteristic which other fellows cannot have and I respect that person as such. With the grace of Almighty God, a book entitled INNER THOUGHTS which could be purchased online from http://flipkart.com. This book is based on the topics which have been penned down. That is why it is rightly said if intentions are good, everything goes well with you.

5 thoughts on “Why most of the people when finding a girl alone treat her as an opportunity and not as a responsibility – to save her when she is face to face with difficult situation? (As asked)”

  1. It is not merely a ‘girl in distress’ but men too, it is our duty as humans to come to the assistance of someone who is in dire need of our assistance.

    I have tried to answer a question, as posed, kindly appraise and offer your kind comments.

    WITH WARM REGARDS

    HARBANS

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