Why most of the people when finding a girl alone treat her as an opportunity and not as a responsibility – to save her when she is faced with difficult situation?
Be that as it may, pray do not generalize as by doing so, you are including all men who do not harbor any ill-will or consider girl as an ‘opportunity’ or to be a nuisance to her. The word ‘opportunity’ here has negative connotations which a well civilized person, brought up in congenial atmosphere will never think of doing.
This is, undoubtedly notwithstanding the fact that there are black sheep including men amongst us masquerading (wearing a mask of decency) to hide their identities who while seeing a girl alone ‘treat them as an opportunity’. Such persons are ignorant about relationships – either of themselves or of others.
They do not take into cognizance that today it is somebody else’s daughter, sister, wife, mother; then tomorrow, it is possible that she could be a very close relative of his own. Then what? And if somebody mistreats or makes her life miserable then what would be that particular person’s feelings after knowing the truth? Generally, we forget this reality before thinking others as an opportunity – a shortsightedness of highest order, in my view.
On the other hand, we should take it as our avowed ‘responsibility’ to render assistance, in the form of personal involvement to save the concerned girl or informing the law enforcement agencies to for the succor. The girl may have lost her way or may be facing any problem. It is our responsibility to know the cause of her predicament and then render assistance in whatever way it is possible..
To consider her helplessness as an ‘opportunity’ is rather a misnomer and downright uncivilized demeanor and every right thinking person will condemn such a behavior in the strongest terms imaginable.